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Biblical Counseling, Depression Part IV

07 Sunday Sep 2014

Posted by memoirandremains in Biblical Counseling, Hope, John Bunyan, Psalms

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1 Corinthians 11:23-26, And Can it Be, Apollyon, Depression, despair, Deuteronomy 7:17–19, Deuteronomy 8:10-18., emotions, Exodus 13:3, Faithful Feelings, Grace, Grace Abounding to the Chief of Sinners, Hope, Isaiah 48:5–7, John Bunyan, John Piper, Jonah 2:7, Memory, Pilgrim's Progress, Prayer, Preach to yourself, Psalm 119:55, Psalm 23:3-4, Psalm 42, Psalm 42:5, Psalm 43, Revelatinon 5:11-14, Romans 12:15, Romans 12:2, Romans 8:24-25, Spiritual Depression, The Soul's Conflict With Itself

COUNSELING PROBLEMS AND BIBLICAL CHANGE

BIBLICAL SOLUTIONS FOR DEPRESSION, PART FOUR

 

DEPRESSION AND MEMORY

Memory is a curious thing when it comes to depression: Depression has the effect of muddling up our memory. When a depressed person attempts to remember things going on in the recent past, they tend make mistakes.[1]

Yet, depression also feeds upon memory.  Emily Dickinson wrote a poem which begins, “Remorse is memory awake”. In the final stanza she writes

Remorse is cureless,—the disease

Not even God can heal;

For ’t is His institution,—

The complement of hell.

 

A 14th Century book from England is entitled Ayenbite of Inwyt – the Again-bite of In-wit [one’s inner thoughts]. One of the great pains of life is not our mere present circumstances, but our memory of how we came to this place.

For example, imagine a man in living alone in an apartment in Hollywood. If the man had recently immigrated from rural Laos, the apartment and the city might seem a wonder and joy.

Now consider another man: Six months earlier he had been married and living in Bell Aire. However, through a series of foolish and wicked choices he now finds himself divorced and living in an apartment in Hollywood.

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Plutarch’s Marriage Advice, Section 45 & 1 Peter 3:1-6

04 Wednesday Jun 2014

Posted by memoirandremains in 1 Peter, Greek, New Testament Background, Plutarch

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1 Peter 3:1-6, conjugalia praecepta, elephants, fine clothes, Greek Translation, James 2:2, New Testament Background, NT Background, Plutarch, Plutarch translation, Plutarch's Marriage Advice, Romans 12:2, Wives

The previous post in this series may be found here: https://memoirandremains.wordpress.com/2014/06/03/plutarchs-marriage-advice-section-44-cats-bees-wives/

This section concerns wives who have taken up a foreign religion which annoys their husband. As such, it helps inform our understanding of 1 Peter 3:1-6[1]. Peter writes to wives generally, but has in made women who are married to husbands who do not share their new and foreign religion, Christianity. Peter instructs the wives to be respectful and kind with their husbands despite the religious differences.  He in particular commends the wives to be quiet and gentle.

Plutarch speaks of wives who have taken up a new religion and are noisy  and apparently ungentle. Plutarch asks why would a wife seek to enrage her husband. Peter instructs wives not to use Christianity as a cudgel, but rather as a means of demonstrating a better way of living in marriage (among other things).

Peter also commends wives to be careful of they dress. Plutarch speaks of husbands who lose it when see certain colors. I don’t know the reference, but in light noise reference having a religious implication, it may be that certain clothing was required by some cults. Peter, again, tells the wives not to make clothing the point of contention.

Section 45

Those who approach elephants don’t wear flashy clothes, nor red those who approach bulls; because these colors drive the animals absolutely insane. They say that tigers go completely berserk and tear themselves apart when surrounded with drums. 

Some husbands become quite vexed seeing red or purple clothes, others are weighed down by the drums and cymbals.

Really, how hard would it be for their wives to simply abstain and not to do such things and not provoke their husbands? Rather, shouldn’t they live with them in quiet and gentleness?

 

Greek Text and Translation Notes:

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The tyranny of the present.

25 Sunday May 2014

Posted by memoirandremains in Apologetics, Francis Schaeffer

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Consensus, Philosophy, Present, Presentism, Romans 12:2, The God Who Is There

Why did theology follow philosophy in this tremendously important step? For two reasons: firstly, their old optimistic rationalism had failed to produce an historically credible Jesus, once the miraculous had been rejected; secondly, since the surrounding consensus of thought which they were carefully following was normative to them, when philosophy developed in this direction, they eventually followed.

-The God Who is There, Francis Schaeffer, 1.52. The second point is most interesting: The present consensus tends to create a space in which it is almost impossible to think and articulate a contrary thought. Imagine the worldview of a person living in any other time in the past: Everyone in ancient Babylon “knew” that gods could be accessed by means of statutes — now, that is considered rank nonsense.

We may flatter ourselves that we are now wiser and modern — but isn’t that the constant self-perception. And, if that is so, won’t someone a hundred years hence have the same self-delusion. Won’t that make our present state hopeless naive or foolish or inexplicable? Shouldn’t we consider that perhaps the consensus of the present is more mass delusion than acquired wisdom?

Romans 12:2, “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.”

The Rare Jewel of Christian Contentment.1

04 Thursday Jul 2013

Posted by memoirandremains in Contentment, Jeremiah Burroughs, Meditation, Prayer, Puritan, Uncategorized

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Contentment, Discontentment, Gnosticism, Jeremiah Burroughs, Renewing the Mind, Romans 12:2, Romans 8:13, Secret, The Rare Jewel of Christian Contentment, Transforming the Mind Prayer

Burroughs, whose circumstances did not foster contentment (as I am reading in the wonderful biography of Burroughs by Phillip Simpson), looked in Paul’s words found in Philippians 4:11-12:

11 Not that I am speaking of being in need, for I have learned in whatever situation I am to be content.12 I know how to be brought low, and I know how to abound. In any and every circumstance, I have learned the secret of facing plenty and hunger, abundance and need.

Burroughs first notes the route to contentment. This is perhaps the most troubling aspect — I know no one who would not receive contentment (sure some will not want to become static and mouldering, but that is not Paul’s meaning here) — is that contentment is not a gift without gaining. Contentment must be learned.

He here keys in on the words which we have translated as “I have learned the secret”. Burroughs’ translation merely had the word “instructed” and thus he needs to bring out the matter: Contentment is not something to be found easily — it is a secret (Burroughs uses the word “mystery” as we would use the word “secret”). Thus, we must learn this mystery, this secret:

Contentment in every condition is a great art, a spiritual mystery. It is to be learned, and to be learned as a mystery. And so in verse 12 he affirms: ‘I know how to be abased, and I now how to abound: everywhere and in all things I am instructed.’ The word which is translated ‘instructed’ is derived from the word that signifies ‘mystery’; it is just as if he had said, ‘I have learned the mystery of this business.’ Contentment is to be learned as a great mystery, and those who are thoroughly trained in this art, which is like Samson’s riddle to a natural man, have learned a deep mystery. ‘I have learned it’-I do not have to learn it now, nor did I have the art at first; I have attained it, though with much ado, and now, by the grace of God, I have become the master of this art.

Here is the beginning of the matter: it is an art, a skill to be learned; not merely a state to be enjoyed.

What does this mean?

First, since it can be learned, it will require the transfer and assimilation of some knowledge. Second, it can not merely learned, but it can also be taught. Third, such knowledge is not immediately apparent — it will be acquired as a secret (though it is not a secret because it cannot be had by all — this is not Gnosticism. It is a strange sort of secret. It is a secret in plain sight.).

In short, contentment will take effort.
We can further infer: Since discontentment is a sin (in that discontentment is a judgment that God has done wrong by so ordering the world), contentment is a necessary aspect of sanctification. Therefore, this knowledge cannot be truly had without the Spirit: “If by the Spirit you put to death the deeds of the body, you will live” (Romans 8:13). It is not a mere matter of information; it is a matter of information which transforms the mind (Romans 12:2). And so this matter of contentment will take prayer and meditation.

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You Shall Not Do as They Do

18 Wednesday Apr 2012

Posted by memoirandremains in 1 Peter, Biblical Counseling, Discipleship, Leviticus, Romans

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1 Peter, 1 Peter 1, Biblical Counseling, Canaan, conformity, Discipleship, Egypt, Fearing the Lord, Hope, Leviticus, Leviticus 19, mind, redemption, Romans, Romans 12:2

Leviticus 19:

1 And the LORD spoke to Moses, saying,
2 “Speak to the people of Israel and say to them, I am the LORD your God.
3 You shall not do as they do in the land of Egypt, where you lived, and you shall not do as they do in the land of Canaan, to which I am bringing you. You shall not walk in their statutes.
4 You shall follow my rules and keep my statutes and walk in them. I am the LORD your God.
5 You shall therefore keep my statutes and my rules; if a person does them, he shall live by them: I am the LORD.

The circumstances and temptations have changed, but the desire to be conformed to the world in which we live is the same:

Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.

Romans 12:2.
To prevent conformity which must keep our bearings. In Leviticus, the Lord reminds them from where they came and where he is leading them. The same principle applies today. We have been rescued from ignorance and live in the hope of glory:

13 Therefore, preparing your minds for action, and being sober-minded, set your hope fully on the grace that will be brought to you at the revelation of Jesus Christ.
14 As obedient children, do not be conformed to the passions of your former ignorance,
15 but as he who called you is holy, you also be holy in all your conduct,
16 since it is written, “You shall be holy, for I am holy.”

1 Peter 1:13-16. We must live like where we are going. Holiness is a life fit for eternity. We must live like ransomed people:

17 And if you call on him as Father who judges impartially according to each one’s deeds, conduct yourselves with fear throughout the time of your exile,
18 knowing that you were ransomed from the futile ways inherited from your forefathers, not with perishable things such as silver or gold,
19 but with the precious blood of Christ, like that of a lamb without blemish or spot.
20 He was foreknown before the foundation of the world but was made manifest in the last times for the sake of you
21 who through him are believers in God, who raised him from the dead and gave him glory, so that your faith and hope are in God.

1 Peter 1:17-21.

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